不拍马屁 如何取悦自己的上司?

　　If you have a work or career related problem, ask your boss for advice. Asking for advice willshow your boss that you trust him/her and you value his/her opinion.If you act on the advice you get,follow up and tell your boss what happened (assuming the advice had a positive effect). Validating your boss’s advice will make him/her feel better and will strengthen the relationship you share.

　　3. 向上司寻求建议。

　　如果你有关于工作或事业的疑问，向你的上司寻求建议。这会向你的上司表明你信任他/ 她，并且重视他/ 她的意见。如果你按照你得到的建议行动，那就贯彻到底，并向上司汇报进度（假定建议起到了积极的效果）。验证上司的建议有效会使他/ 她感觉更好，并加深与你之间的关系。

　　4. Don’t slack off.

　　Make sure you stay focused at work and don’t slack off. Limit the time you spend chatting with coworkers, snacking, and surfing the internet. Try to keep work in front of you at all times. If your boss gets the impression that you slack off too much, he or she will lose trust on you and think you’re working less than you might be.Also, when you are not as involved in your work, time will move more slowly, and your day will just seem longer. So stay on task and really wrap yourself in your work.

　　4. 不要懈怠工作。

　　确保你持续将精力集中到工作上并且没有懈怠。控制住你与同事闲聊、吃零食和网上冲浪的时间。尽量时刻把工作摆在首位。如果你的上司注意到你松懈了太久，他/ 她会失去对你的信任并认为你比应该在工作上付出的努力要少。同样的，如果你对工作不够投入，时间会过得更慢，你的工作时间看起来会更漫长。所以专心干活，使自己沉浸于工作中吧。